
  Yep, after 21 years I finally decided to change my hairstyle (who says I'm afraid of change?)!  I was a little nervous when I sat down in the chair and a tiny little Japanese Mama-san (she was  at least 103 years old) asked me in Japanese how I wanted my hair cut.  Since the extent of my Japanese language skills are being able to count to 10, saying hello, goodbye, and where's the bathroom I began to get a little nervous.  Luckily I thought about this ahead of time and had a picture picked out from a magazine.  So I pointed at this and nodded my head and smiled while feeling the beginnings of panic set in.  She said something in Japanese (maybe:  This is going to look terrible on you, are you sure you want me to butcher your hair like this?) and I nodded hoping she had said something to the effect of "No problem!"  As she began snipping away, chatting happily to me in Japanese I saw the chunks of hair falling to the floor and began to sweat like a little monkey.   After some deep breathing techniques I decided my best bet was to close my eyes and picture something relaxing while she chopped off my tresses.  I began to think about Naked Mole Rats, Mexican Hairless Dogs, and Mr. Bigglesworth.  With a scream rising in my throat my eyes popped open and instead of the Mr. Clean look (which by the way is great for my husband - but not what I'm looking for in my own personal hairstyle), she had managed to give me a nice fresh and modern haircut.  Who woulda thunk it?  And it only cost $17!   I'm still figuring out how to not have it become a little frizz ball when I'm at the gym or outside for any lenth of time - but I am really happy that I finally took the leap and changed my look.  So let's see...  First I got married, a few months later I quit my job, a few months after that I moved to Japan, then I enrolled in Graduate school in Psychology and now a new hairstyle!  My God, I'm a change MACHINE (not the kind that spits money out...)!  My Therapist would be so proud!